“Relationships end too soon because people stop putting in the same effort to keep you, as they did to win you.” – Unknown
Well, it’s not like the time we used to be. Dating has gone to it’s another level and the age is also being sooner. The shyness of girl, an effort that boy makes, girls walking in a group, boys trying to impress more are a myth but the love is the same.
Chatting, Love, Sex, and Dhoka has become the cycle of love but those who desperately do can be found as well. It’s also necessary as a survival tool for today’s generation.
Feeling for love has not changed except the meaning. You can feel nervous about asking a girl out and might think you ruined your date. Just keep in mind that – it’s all ok to be nervous. Asking a girl for a date has been tough for most of the men so, whenever you move ahead to approach a girl then just remember these simple things:
1. Be Nice Guy – See Nice Guy
So, the basic thing starts with Kind and Understanding here. It’s growing steadily fast that you need to show her this side as well. The era of liking ‘Bad Ass Guy’ is over.
If you saw her in any public place or might be of your relatives or neighbor then it’s time to show her your nice side. It does not mean you plan the things and just show. Most of the time, planning to show being nice will end you in the friend zone area. Make it more natural that you need to make her see you as someone difficulty finding in today’s time.
Try approaching the conversation by finding something of common interest. Keep it simple and nice that every woman wishes to find today.
“She can’t read your mind. So take a moment to let her know how you feel.” – Unknown
2. Sense of Humor
It works most of the time. The timing and seriousness also necessary if you are not trying to be JOKER. Most of the time humor comes naturally as it shows a very kind and soft side.
If you try to make conversion worth it then a few jokes on time will help a lot. If you cannot also, try collaborating conversation with good comedy shows, movies, or dialogues. To be a point is to make sure you add the elements of humor.
3. Gentlemen Rules
After Romeo and Juliet; people say that the Gentlemen are dead but it’s not. Gentlemen is the mark of a man. Mess with Thugs, Gangsta, or even badass guy as you see today but never with Gentlemens. Gentlemen Rules have many things including kindness, manners, maturity, etiquette, compassion, and being a real gentleman.
If you just want to be normal and formal then be open. Opening doors, holding chairs back when a woman is trying to sit, speak gently, cheerfulness, and so on. It does not mean that they can’t open doors or pay dinner bills but it’s a major element of being gentlemen. It shows warmth they need from being with you.
“Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.” – Unknown
There are more than a ton of things. Just give your best at each point. Like if she sneezes, you hand her your handkerchief! Simple isn’t it.
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