“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.”
—Helen Keller
In relationship either it’s loves or friends; everyone is insecure about something. It’s natural to feel what you feel. Sometimes, we still judge ourselves unfairly feeling so. We feel so low and aggressive. It’s all because of comparing ourselves to someone who we feel is better than us.
Here are major ways to get rid of our insecurities and feel more confident and secure about anything in the long run.
1. Try Avoiding situations and people
It does not mean to be unsocial or avoid people but cut the root cause of your insecurity. Though if it’s a certain person that is making you insecure then try keeping a healthy distance. Most of the time it’s not the person you love but surrounding him/her is the one.
A relationship could be toxic if you are insecure and not appreciated enough. Whatever it could be, cut it out from the root and throw far away.
It will help you to understand that’s not for you or move away that isn’t meant for you.
2. Build yourself
Priorities and manage your things. There are plenty of ways out there to build yourself and make secure. The one thing you stuck for being insecure is not the end. It does depend on what you’re insecure about the most. Build your looks, eat healthily, go to the gym, start reading books, or do yoga it will help you out to strengthen your belief in yourself. It will take you far from distracting as well. You need to push yourself because no one else is going to do it for you.
“Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it. ”
– M. Scott Peck
Attend seminars, build a network, meet new people of similar minds, and don’t be recluse. Try to be self, if you are doing it for presenting other it will all fade in water.
3. Surround with Like-minded People
As mentioned above, try to surround yourself with positive people and likeminded peoples. The more you surround likeminded people the more you get appreciated or treated as you do. You will feel insecure only if you are treated in another way by your peers, friends, parents, or even your significant other. You will lose confidence with them so it’s very important to recognize the people who are good and appreciate your being. Stick with those sorts of people rather than attracting toxic people who play on your insecurities and make it worse.
Little things make big differences. You will always remain truly secure with yourself and your surroundings if you apply these simple qualities in life. Try to be yourself and surround similar peoples to be more secure. If you are insecure, it’s not meant for you, and confession is not a solution.
“To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness.”
– Robert Morley