breakups

“Starting today, I need to forget what’s gone. Appreciate what remains and look forward to what’s coming next.”

Let me take you to the time where I had my break up and how I overcame it. It was an intense moment and one of the hell of a ride. It was not easy at all but overcame quite soon that other I guess. Most of the people take so long and someone never came back into their life.

Being alone, Silent, staying away from friends, parents, or any other person will never work. I know it might be easy to say but difficult to face. I’ve even seen the moment so close. Cutting off someone close from your psyche due to nonsense reasons from them is the most difficult thing to do.

Everything is just an opportunity but need to identify what’s that. There’s a lot you can learn from this phase. You have to take control of your feeling not to control you. Just remember to hope and look back. You will realize how breakup has changed you for the better. We don’t show that we’re hurt due to which it’s difficult to cope up with breakup than women.

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Put Yourself First

During love, we try to compromise or neglect our needs and always put their needs first. Now after a breakup, there is no “them” it’s always me. You need to make yourself happy and put yourself first. It’s good for your mental health and well being.

Alone is Good

Being alone is always as good as you live in a dream. In a relationship, you need to manage schedule, put someone’s time, presence, and fit on it but being alone is freedom. You can have time in your hands to learn and do various things. Go out with friends, hang out drink some beers all crazy stuff are ok. Have “ME” time and sleep or travel.

Always be With Friends and Family

So it simply means to be with your friends and family and never forget about them. You should never take any stress to think about them. You may not know but directly and indirectly, they have helped you a lot. You may not have been able to manage some time with them, probably because of being with your so-called ex. In the end, they will be with you all the time.

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It will end

Yeah, man! I cried a lot, Begged for love, requested so many times, ask for help from her nearby as well but nothing worked. I was missing her and cited but not to be offended. I expressed my feelings here. Time flies so soon as well. Day by day, month to month, and hours to hours you’re almost healing.

“Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser.”

The best way to flow out your pain is not only to cry but it’s ok. Travel, be with friends, hang up with friends, and follow your hobbies. You will overcome it within a short period.
It’s not the end of the Word. Remember, if she broke up means she doesn’t know your value. Be kind, Be lovely and Be natural. Work so hard and build yourself, you will learn to be a champion.

“Right time, Right person will be in your life”

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